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The Most Important Reason Why You Should Strive To Attain Adjustability

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The Power Of Adjustment.

In recent times, I've taken myself on a journey of self discovery, not that I don't know what I am, who I am or what my capabilities are, I just felt I needed to look deeper, in other to adjust, in life, everything is all about adjustments, you can never be as pretty as you want, as rich as you crave, as handsome as you wish, as influential as you could get, even some people secretly wish they were another person, from another race or maybe could face a different challenge different from what they're currently facing.

Nevertheless, freedom is all in the mind and hardly evident in the reality we live in. Inasmuch as our freedom extends to our choices and the ability to envisage fantasies and countless possible, we're still limited by our inability to take actions as some of the things we envisage are hardly plausible.

The Paradox

However, we grow into us, choosing to love ourselves in other to live a happy life, sometimes we're not born to live fulfilled by default, a lot of people grew up hating the circumstances through which they exist, simply because they want to be different, sometimes people who are wealthy grow tired of their wealth and hence seek somplicity.

Others who are not so wealthy, seek to be wealthy and powerful and crave to be that person who is wealthy and at the end of the day there's is a paradoxical established. A paradox of disagreement, you see circumstances and people all seeking to swap places because sometimes when people look all they see is what they don't have and what they could have when they're someone else.

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Like I said earlier, its all about adjustments, there is no 100% satisfaction, people are living their lives everyday striving to attain the perfect equilibrium in other to marry their flaws with their strength, so as to attain a state or level of satisfaction, contentment and acceptance.

The sense of competition is inbued into people by default, this has been amplified by the jet age we now find ourselves. Despite all the comfort at the exposure of man sometimes we get to a stage where we realise that all these things are a means to an end; they're not eternal.

the pleasure they bring us is ephemeral and in a mad frenzy of confusion a lot of people have given it up all to seek for things that would last really long in their lives. There are times we seek permanence, we want something longlasting, sometimes that would make impact for a long period of time.

We often wander off; neglecting the things we have, family, friends, the people that loves us just to seek a different kind of challenge, soothe the curiosity in us and finding the true essence to life. It takes a lot of personal control to stay in line. And this is where the issue of adjustment comes in again.

There are no perfect conditioning for our existence, we all have diverse definitions of beauty, happiness and contentment and this is heightened by insatiability. While a lot of people are trying to control these instinct a lot of other people have found the formula to co-exist with it, while others are still struggling to do so.

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When people don't find the right formula to adjust to the circumstances that sorrounds their existence it become impossible to find joy even in the simplest or things like looking at nature, bathing in the sand and sitting to the warm sunset on our skins.

The Struggle To Lead A Happy Life.

However, we have human virtues that sometimes I feel I should estol and this is ranging from patience, perseverance, goodness, hardwork, adaptability, empathy and love to say but a few. While adaptability is one of our strongest suits, I do believe that striving towards adjustments will eventually establish a wholeness within us.

Irrespective of how we often envisage others while looking at them from afar, one thing we must know is, people are struggling to tow the line, live through a lot of difficulties while struggling to lead a happy life. It means that naturally we all see the good side to others not because this is naturally how it is but because these people have adjusted to their realities and finding happiness within it.

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My name is @Josediccus, a young Nigerian student who is a Vlogger, A Psychologist, Poet And Sports Writer/Analyst. I'm using my contents as a process to create shared meaning as well as create expressions through which people on/off hive can relate. I believe content is a process to be enjoyed and relished and I'm up for any collaborations in my field stated above. Cheers

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