I had a keen discussion with someone a few days ago and in the middle of our discussion, we talked about finance, love life, relationship, and even marriage. One thing led to the other that he mentioned a fellow worker who wasn't willing to let go of her work to please a man who asked for her hand in marriage. According to the story, the man in question asked his girlfriend to quit her job because he didn't like where she was working and so because of that she should quit. But because the lady also in question couldn't risk it, she rather choose to let go of her love and not marry the man because she refused to quit her job which according to her was paying her well and to be frank wasn't sure she could ever get or find another like it.
Yeah, they weren't married just yet according to the story but were about to or planning to, only for the lady to choose her work over the man she loved and the marriage they had planned to have or would have had.

What Would Have Been Your Choice?

Now in such cases, if you were the lady and you were in her shoes, what would have been your decision? What would you have rather done? And what would have been your reasons? Assuming the place you are working pays you well and you have some benefits and favor and then someone (your man) suddenly wakes up one day and ask you to stop working there perhaps with his reasons but I wouldn't be the one to mention (it could be any reason). So what would have been your considerations and choice? Or do you think the lady in question did wrong for choosing her work and her salary over her love and their marriage if you think she was wrong, then please can you state or give your reasons for that answer too? Does one have to risk it all for love or marriage? Considering how difficult things are at the moment and how everyone seems to be struggling to make ends meet? Does such love really deserve to be?

I become a little lost and confused when it comes to matters similar to this. I mean it's not so easy to give up one's love or marriage because of money and its not also easy to give up a well-paying job for marriage in a country that is as difficult as ours, so in a way, I tend to understand why the lady did what she did. So let's say you were the one, what would you have done on your part? Would it be your love? Your marriage or your work? I would love to have your opinion on this, thank you!

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             28 September 2022 
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               Wednesday