(often hidden from the public eye)

This is where a lot of the danger lays, as people do not know what is being hidden and- "seeing is believing"

I offer a woman a lovely ring, she accepts my proposal(marraige) and I pay her for the rest of my life hahaha.

I offer a woman a lovely ring, she accepts my proposal(marraige) and I pay her for (it) the rest of my life hahaha.